This isn’t a short journey, but it’s my journey…
I would love to say that I have been passionate about fitness all of my life, but that would be a lie. As a kid, I lived an active lifestyle, and tried playing a few different sports. I played soccer, volleyball, water polo, was on the swim team. I was pretty good at soccer, but everything else I was just okay. I would have never made varsity in water polo or on the swim team, so I only participated through my sophomore year. After that, I threw myself into student government and social events, but I was young with the metabolism of a teenage girl so I was fine. During my senior year, I started working at two different restaurants and would eat there on my breaks, but very few of my choices were healthy. It helped that I was walking around a lot waiting tables, but not much. Things stayed that way until I moved to Las Vegas six months after graduation.
I started working as a bank teller where I stood still all day. I was lazy and didn’t feel like cooking (I also hadn’t found my passion for cooking yet) so quick freezer meals, or grabbing fast food were my go-tos. I started gaining weight and I asked D to workout with me. We attempted to workout together once. He was in MUCH better shape than I was, and I felt like I was dying less than ¼ mile into our jog. I was angry, pissy, and stubborn, it was the last time we tried running together until recently. Money was tight and we couldn’t afford a gym membership, but let’s be honest, I probably wouldn’t have gone consistently.
Things stayed the same until we moved to Mississippi in the fall of 2007. We were married by then, so I had access to the base gym, but never made working out my priority. I worked at a restaurant with easy access to unhealthy choices and temptations that I gave into. I made a New Year’s resolution with some of my friends to go to spin class, and we went three times a week for maybe 4 months until it got unbearably hot in the gym.
No workout ever really stuck with me, and I hated working out. I would make excuses not to go to the gym. If I didn’t have a short term goal insight I wasn’t motivated enough to continue working out even though my growing waist told me I should get myself to the gym. I couldn’t even get my butt into gear for our wedding ceremony/vow renewal in 2010. I look back at my wedding photos and wish I had worked harder and stuck with a good workout regime/routine.
Fast forward to our first year in Germany, my husband was deployed and I was going to go on a girls’ cruise. I worked out with a good friend of mine and she helped me learn some great workouts. She also continued to workout with me for the duration of the time our guys were gone. I lost a good amount of weight and was so proud of myself. I wanted to look good when D came home, and if it wasn’t for my friend, I don’t know if I would have looked the way I did.
When D came home for his deployment, we got pregnant right away. I told myself that I wanted a healthy pregnancy and I worked out a few times during my first trimester until the smell of the gym made me sick to my stomach, literally. I stopped working out and unfortunately took eating for two to heart. I gained 46 lbs with during my first pregnancy. I felt huge.
I didn’t get straight back into working out after Emily was born. It took me almost 2 years to get back to my pre-pregnancy weight (and stay there for consistently) and I couldn’t have done it without my girls with FIT4MOM Fort Worth. I decided to join them for Stroller Strides because I was bored, new to Texas, and wanted to make new friends. I didn’t think it was going to be a difficult workout, just strolling around a park with other moms. I was SO wrong. I almost threw up at my first class, no joke. It was an awesome (yet so painful) mixture or cardio and strength training. The moms were so welcoming, my daughter was engaged during class, she played with other kids after class, the workout kicked my butt, and from day one I was hooked. I signed up for a membership that day and it was one of the best decisions I have ever made. A few months later I signed up for Body Back, an 8 week result based nutrition and workout designed to help moms get their body back after pregnancy. The workouts were intense, to say the least. I started seeing results and became addicted. In my first session I lost 13.6 lbs! I had an amazing Body Back instructor who motivated me and help me get through those 8 weeks. I knew then that I wanted to pay it forward and help someone achieve their goals, just like my instructor had done for me. Thankfully our franchise owner felt the same about my potential and she hired me as a Stroller Strides instructor. I had found my passion, my purpose, it was to help other’s achieve their fitness goals.
My second pregnancy was completely different then my first. I worked out my entire pregnancy up until 3 days before my c-section at 39 weeks. I gained 30 lbs with my second pregnancy, but it wasn’t just about the number on a scale. I felt better, I looked better, and recovered faster than I did with my first pregnancy and c-section.
Six weeks after I gave birth, we were on a plane moving to South Korea. I missed my FIT4MOM family so much. I was depressed, I wasn’t working out because I had a new baby, I didn’t have Stroller Strides, I was temporarily living in a one bedroom hotel/apartment until our home was ready for us to move-in. A friend reached out to me and asked me if I was interested in joining her in a Beachbody challenge group. I had been approached before about Beachbody, but I was never interested. I knew I was on a downward, petty-party spiral, and I needed something to change. I bit the bullet, purchased a 21 Day Fix Challenge Pack, did the challenge and loved it. I learned some great tips and had an entire group of other challengers motivating each other to reach our goals. I finally knew what other people who had approached me about Beachbody were talking about. The programs are awesome, Shakeology tastes great, and I saw results. It’s not a quick fix, which I falsely thought it was, its a lifestyle. I was hooked, so I decided to become a Beachbody coach. I still have that passion and drive to help other people achieve their fitness goals, it just looks a little different now than it did last year. An added bonus, I can do my job ANYWHERE which is huge for me being a military spouse, and I can do it while being a stay at home mom, my favorite job of all.
My journey isn’t over yet. In fact, now that I am done having babies, I can’t wait to see how I can transform my body into the body I have always wanted, but never thought I was capable of until now. I am not a model or someone who is “lucky” enough to have high metabolism and be naturally thin. I am a mom of two who has worked hard to get the body that I have and I am damn proud of it.
If you’re tired of giving up, if you want to change your lifestyle and commit to being fit and healthy I can help you succeed, just contact me. Do you have a passion for fitness and want to help others? I’d love for you to join my team. xoxo